It’s that time of the year again when old and bad habits are remembered to be replaced by better habits. Yes, it’s New Year’s Resolution time again.
I have never been fond of making this list annually. One, I find it difficult to enumerate one by one the things that I want to do. Sometimes, I just want to be or try to be spontaneous and carefree.
Second, 8 or even 9 out of 10 people that I know do not fulfill their resolutions at all. They start it on the eve of the New Year and excuse themselves on the 2nd day of the new year until the second to the last day of the next year. To me, it becomes a fad that people try to do but never doing it anyway. So my thought always is, “Why bother?”
Then, why bother now?
Well, I’m trying to make some things in my life change. And what better way to start it is by planning how I would want to experience and live in 2012. Yes, I call it my life plan for 2012. Just like in building a house, you have a blueprint of how you want your house to look like. I want to see a blueprint of how I want my life to look like in 2012. And it starts in my ’12 for 2012′ list (not arranged according to priority).
1. Read more.
I love reading books but haven’t been able to do regularly for quite some time already. Thus, I will do my best to read at least 2 books per quarter in 2012. That’s a total of at least 8 books in 2012. I originally planned to only have 1 per quarter but wanted to do a stretch goal. Thus, the 8 target. Aside from fictions, I will try to diversify my book reads to include self-help books, leadership and management books and spiritual and inspirational literature. This will feed my mind to learn more about life in 2012.
2. Save more.
2011 was a year of many buys for me. 2011 was the year when I had several purchases – from gadgets to meal vouchers to travel deals. I am quite amazed that I am not in heavy debt right now. Haha. Thus, I resolve to consider saving more of my hard-earned money instead of thinking where to splurge it. I am aiming to have at least 50,000 PHP more added to my current savings. That would mean less eating out for me and less new clothes and gadgets in 2012. Personally, I would like this more than having more material things but less savings in the long run. I need more savings to help me achieve my next goal for 2012.
3. Invest more.
Contrary to the many purchases that I had in 2011, I had very minimal investments in 2011. I only had my PECA monthly savings, which is our company’s savings cooperation for employees and retirees. I only have a very conservative amount to save every month from my pay and because of that, my total PECA savings has yet to reach my desired savings which is 500,000 PHP. Apart from PECA, I am paying for the monthly installment of my SM Light Residences condo investment. I’m still on my 36-month 20% down-payment period until the end of 2012. The planned turnover is on 2013 and I am planning to sell it right after at a much higher price than when I bought it. I got it at the pre-selling price so I am expecting a 25-30%, at the least, increase in its value when I decide to sell it already. This 2012, I am planning to get more investments and venture into mutual funds and passive stock market trading. I already have a mutual fund agent. I just need to make up my mind on the mutual fund plan that I will get for myself and also learn basic stock market principles to help me achieve this goal in 2012. I am not getting any younger already that is why I need to be more aggressive in planning out my investments in 2012 and in the next years to come.
4. Learn more.
In 2012, I promise myself to educate myself more. Either by reading more books or attending a real classroom class, I plan to enrich my knowledge more in 2012. Enrolling for an MBA degree is one of my plans for 2012. I am also planning to get some real swimming classes as I plan to make this a weekly exercise routine for me.
5. Exercise more.
I know, I know. This 2012, I need to exert more effort to stay healthy and keep myself fit. Thus, I will try my best to exercise every week by doing weekly 2-hour swims every Saturdays or Sundays. This will help me stay in shape and monitor my weight to its desired value for my height and age.
6. Be a budget traveler and travel more.
Last 2011, I was able to travel to 16 places outside of Manila. 2 of these are international trips and the rest are domestic travels. I am actually quite surprised that I had this many trips in 2011. For 2012, I plan to continue seeing my country and the world. I believe that you learn more about yourself and your world when you travel. I just need to practice how to be a budget traveler and also a light packer. These are always my weaknesses whenever I take trips. I sometimes overspend and have a hard time fitting my clothes and accessories in a 15-kg luggage.
7. Volunteer.
Being a ‘corporate-slave’ sometimes saps the life out of you. And you sometimes feel the need to have a relevant role in the society in alleviating poverty, fighting corruption and what-have-yous. This 2012, I want to remember again how it feels like to serve other people and see genuine smiles on people’s faces after you have given them food, clothed them from cold and helped them build their lives. I need to get involved again in socio-civic activities and feel the spirit of volunteerism.
8. Learn to take risks.
I am a conservative risk taker. I rarely risk anything not unless I am 101% sure that I am winning in the end. I think most people are. This year, I want to learn to make more calculated risks. The operative term is ‘calculated’. Of course, we still want to win in the end. If you end up losing still, then it’s something that you can learn from. The best part is not limiting yourself/myself from getting what you want/your goals no matter what the obstacles are. Great people from history have all taken big risks in their lives and because of that, they became who they are.
9. Spiritual maturity.
This is something that I really need to work on. Actually, this should be my first priority in this list. Everyday I wake up and sometimes forget that the reason why I live is because He gave me another day to experience my life in this world. Too preachy but it’s the truth. Sometimes, I feel guilty that I seldom give time to invest in enriching my soul and spiritual relationship with my God. This year, I want to make myself closer to my God and make ways to praise Him more. Last year, I was introduced to Bo Sanchez’s The Feast and ever since then, I became a follower. This year, I hope and I will try to step it up further and join a ministry in The Feast church (silently hoping it’s the Music Ministry even if I sing like the infamous William Hung).
10. Try to be more friendly and sociable.
This is always my waterloo. I always think of myself as a social ‘mimosa pudica’. Some people think that I am difficult to approach because I seldom smile to people that I haven’t been introduced to yet. Also, sometimes I do not want to be extra close to someone who I have just met for the first time because I do not want to make them feel uneasy and brush them off the wrong way. This year, I will try my very best to be a social butterfly. Probably not the life of the party yet but enough to not make other people feel uneasy when around me. There’s nothing worse of a feeling than when almost all of your floormates have gone out for lunch while you are eating alone in your desk because no one invited you out.
11. Write more.
Honestly, I think I am a terrible writer. During my Comm 1 college class, I always tried hard to earn a 1.0 grade in our weekly journals. But I never did get one. I think I am a lousy writer. But you have to start from something, right. I think some of the great writers of today have written boring pieces of literature at one point in their careers. They just furthered on until they became the best writers that they are today. Thus, I will not be discouraged even if I write too long and sometimes boring stuff. I will push forward just like what these great writers did. At least, I am just writing for myself and not for a living. There’s nothing to lose for me. Albeit, I have a lot to gain especially documenting my thoughts, travels and my life. And I think WordPress and Blogspot will help me do that.
12. Work harder and focus more.
Career-wise, I have yet to experience how it feels like to be really recognized for a great work that have been done. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve had small victories every now and then but I thirst for a major triumph in my career. Last 2011, it was just a pretty steady career ride for me. There were definitely ups and downs and changing careers and resigning from my current job have sometimes crossed my mind. Sometimes, I think I am in the wrong industry. But still, I am here. This 2012, I pray for a more rewarding career for myself. I have already achieved my dream of working in my current company (one of my dream companies to work for). In 2012, I want to have the opportunity to be recognized in what I have done and in contributions that I have made. I will do my best to focus more in my work and balance everything that’s happening in my life including my family, love and relationships and of course, my career path.
2011 has been a blast. Here’s to a better 2012 to everyone around the world!
Happy New Year 2012! Cheers everyone! 🙂